The Gardener Next Door

I just read Millionaire Women Next Door by Thomas Stanley, one of the authors of The Millionaire Next Door. Dr. Stanley studied women who are self-made millionaires and found many common traits among them. Many of the women enjoyed gardening. As one might expect, they worked hard and loved their work. What can we learn from them, and how can we apply their lessons to making a successful garden?

• Most of the self-made women had encouraging, loving parents. Your plants, too, will need care, especially the first year you plant them.
  
• A minority of the women—the Beta Women—overcame neglectful or even abusive parents. How? Among other things, they were strong-willed and independent. If you cannot give your plants much attention, select plants with an iron constitution. Keep in mind, though, that even the toughest plants, like people, need care as babies.
  
• Many of the women (in fact, most of the Beta Women) had dumped unsupportive, opportunistic husbands. The gardening equivalent is called “shovel pruning.” Get rid of plants that won’t thrive no matter what you do.
  
• Many had mentors. Even more so than their male counterparts, they sought advice from proven winners. So if you like your neighbor’s yard, ask him for gardening advice.
  
• Even more so than male millionaires, these women researched investments before buying. Do your homework on plants before investing the time and money in raising them.
  

Of course, it doesn't take scientific research to figure out some things:

• These women worked hard. As Thomas Edison put it, “Success is one percent inspiration and ninety-nine percent perspiration.” Water your plants with your sweat.
  
• They persisted through adversity. Many of these women failed before they succeeded. They bounced around the job market for years, and finally started their own businesses at an average age of 36. Your gardening mistakes are opportunities for learning.
  
• They are frugal, frugal, frugal. Bust your behind, not your budget.